From the Book....
"As you learn to create life with love and respect, you will be projecting out love and respect. As you project out love and respect, you will draw more love and respect to you. Are you upset that you do not receive love and respect? It is not necessary to get upset about it. Simply begin to treat yourself in the manner you wish to be treated. If you wish to have kindness in your life then I suggest that you begin to treat you with kindness. If you wish to have love in your life then I suggest you begin to treat you lovingly. You will find that 'what you are' is what you project, and what you project is what you get right back. This is not punishment; it is simply a way to show you what you are projecting.

When you begin to clear out your subconscious programming, you will find that you will be creating more of you to fill the void where the programming was stored. You may fill this void with self-love and this will begin to gain and take over momentum and soon self-love will be bigger than self-hate and self-loathing. When self-love grows to the extent that you are bigger in love than you are in hate, you will see a big change in how others react to you. Now you are projecting love of self and it is being reflected back to you.

You have never been taught to love you. You were born into this world and told from early on that you must learn to love and care for your brothers and sisters. Some were told to love and care for their parents and cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents, and the pet dog and pony and squirrels in the yard. No one ever took you aside and said 'the most important thing you will ever do is to love and care for yourself.' You just were not taught to love you. It is not accepted and I wish to change how you believe. I want you to accept you (all aspects of you) and to love you. Love you as you would love a most valued family member, or, for some of you, the way you would love a most valued pet or possession."