Finalist for the 2021 National Book Award for Nonfiction
Winner of the 2022 Asian/Pacific American Award in Literature
A TIME and NPR Best Book of the Year in 2021
This evocative memoir of food and family history is "somehow both mouthwatering and heartbreaking... [and] a potent personal history" (Shelf Awareness).
Grace M. Cho grew up as the daughter of a white American merchant marine and the Korean bar hostess he met abroad. They were one of few immigrants in a xenophobic small town during the Cold War, where identity was politicized by everyday details-language, cultural references, memories, and food. When Grace was fifteen, her dynamic mother experienced the onset of schizophrenia, a condition that would continue and evolve for the rest of her life.
Part food memoir, part sociological investigation, Tastes Like War is a hybrid text about a daughter's search through intimate and global history for the roots of her mother's schizophrenia. In her mother's final years, Grace learned to cook dishes from her parent's childhood in order to invite the past into the present, and to hold space for her mother's multiple voices at the table. And through careful listening over these shared meals, Grace discovered not only the things that broke the brilliant, complicated woman who raised her-but also the things that kept her alive.
"An exquisite commemoration and a potent reclamation." -Booklist (starred review)
"A wrenching, powerful account of the long-term effects of the immigrant experience." -Kirkus Reviews
Show moreFinalist for the 2021 National Book Award for Nonfiction
Winner of the 2022 Asian/Pacific American Award in Literature
A TIME and NPR Best Book of the Year in 2021
This evocative memoir of food and family history is "somehow both mouthwatering and heartbreaking... [and] a potent personal history" (Shelf Awareness).
Grace M. Cho grew up as the daughter of a white American merchant marine and the Korean bar hostess he met abroad. They were one of few immigrants in a xenophobic small town during the Cold War, where identity was politicized by everyday details-language, cultural references, memories, and food. When Grace was fifteen, her dynamic mother experienced the onset of schizophrenia, a condition that would continue and evolve for the rest of her life.
Part food memoir, part sociological investigation, Tastes Like War is a hybrid text about a daughter's search through intimate and global history for the roots of her mother's schizophrenia. In her mother's final years, Grace learned to cook dishes from her parent's childhood in order to invite the past into the present, and to hold space for her mother's multiple voices at the table. And through careful listening over these shared meals, Grace discovered not only the things that broke the brilliant, complicated woman who raised her-but also the things that kept her alive.
"An exquisite commemoration and a potent reclamation." -Booklist (starred review)
"A wrenching, powerful account of the long-term effects of the immigrant experience." -Kirkus Reviews
Show moreGrace M. Cho is the author ofTastes Like War, a 2021
National Book Awards finalist, andHaunting the Korean Diaspora:
Shame, Secrecy, and the Forgotten War, which received a 2010 book
award from the American Sociological Association. Her writings have
appeared in journals such as theNew Inquiry,Poem Memoir
Story,Contexts,Gastronomica,Feminist Studies,WSQ, andQualitative
Inquiry. She is associate professor of sociology and anthropology
at the College of Staten Island, CUNY.
"Grace M. Cho's memoir richly braids Korean meals, memories of a
mother fighting racism and the onset of schizophrenia, and
references ranging from Christine Blasey Ford's testimony to the
essays of Ralph Ellison." —Vanity Fair “Fascinating.” —Ms. "A deft
presentation of an uncertain and critically underserved past. . . .
In Tastes Like War, Cho has sent a vital current through a history
towards a more considered life, a more felt conception of history
as it involves us.” —Full Stop “Somehow both mouthwatering and
heartbreaking, Tastes Like War is a potent personal history.”
—Shelf Awareness “An exquisite commemoration and a potent
reclamation.” —Booklist, starred review “A wrenching, powerful
account of the long-term effects of the immigrant experience.”
—Kirkus Reviews"Powered by sharp, unflinching prose, Cho’s book is
as much about her personal history as it is about the history of
American hegemony in Asia — and the many scars it has left on the
millions of people who have experienced it. By chronicling her own
relationship with her mother, who struggled with schizophrenia, and
many of the foods they shared, Cho offers an incisive portrait of
how haunting these conflicts continue to be.” —Vox“Terrific.”
—Chicago Tribune“Tastes Like War is a compelling reminder that our
lives are connected to and reflect the legacies of collective
histories and experiences.” —International Examiner “Powerful.”
—Alta Journal“That memoir was illuminating in terms of my own life…
helpful to understanding what immigration does to your brain.”
—John Cho, actor, for PEOPLE Magazine
“As a member of the complicated postwar Korean diaspora in the US,
I have been waiting for this book all my life. Tastes Like
War is, among other things, a series of revelations of
intergenerational trauma in its many guises and forms, often
inextricable from love and obligation. Food is a complicated but
life-affirming thread throughout the memoir, a deep part of Grace
and her mother’s parallel journeys to live with autonomy, dignity,
nourishment, memory, and love.” —Sun Yung Shin, author of
Unbearable Splendor “What are the ingredients for madness? Grace M.
Cho’s sui generis memoir of her mother’s schizophrenia plumbs the
effects of colonialism, war, and violence on a Korean American
family. By learning to cook her mother’s favorite childhood dishes,
Cho comes to break bread with the numerous voices haunting her
‘pained spirit.’ Cho’s moving and frank exploration examines how
the social gets under our skin across vast stretches of space and
time, illuminating mental illness as a social problem as much as a
biological disease.” —David L. Eng, coauthor of Racial Melancholia,
Racial Dissociation: On the Social and Psychic Lives of Asian
Americans “Raw, reaching, and propulsive, Grace M. Cho’s Tastes
Like War creates and explores an epic conversation about heritage
and history, intergenerational trauma and the connective potential
of food to explore a mother’s fractured past. This is both a memoir
and a reclamation.” —Allie Rowbottom, author of Jell-O Girls: A
Family History“That memoir was illuminating in terms of my own
life… helping to understanding what immigration does to your
brain.” —John Cho, actor“A profoundly moving meditation on the
intimate connections between the familial and the geopolitical,
Grace M. Cho’s Tastes Like War is a requiem and a love song for a
brilliant, elusive mother whose traumatic past shadows her
daughter’s present. Refusing to see her mother’s mental illness as
individual pathology, but rather as rooted in the sociopolitical,
Cho has written a tale of the fierce love between mothers and
daughters—of appetites and longing, of taste, smell, and sensation
that speak when words fail, and that ultimately lead a daughter
home. This searingly honest, heartbreaking memoir evokes the ways
in which food in the immigrant household may just as easily be a
path to assimilation, alienation, and forgetting, as it can be to
remembering, connection, joy, and possibility.” —Gayatri Gopinath,
author of Unruly Visions: The Aesthetic Practices of Queer
Diaspora
“Grace M. Cho’s debut memoir follows and forages alongside her
mother in the shadowed gendered histories of the unending Korean
War in the United States. This is a book of care and homage to the
persistent creativity of a Korean mother, her daughter’s love, and
their resilience despite the ghosts of US militarism. Tastes Like
War signals a powerfully evocative new voice.” —Jennifer Kwon
Dobbs, author of Interrogation Room “Exquisitely crafted,
Grace M. Cho’s Tastes Like War will break readers’ hearts as it
engages them in a daughter’s search for her mother in the traumatic
effects of war, immigration, and mental illness. In her debut
memoir, Cho brilliantly shows the possibilities of the genre to
bring together thought and affect in the pursuit of understanding
the ghosts of our historical present.” —Patricia Ticineto Clough,
The User Unconscious: On Affect Media and Measure “In excavating
the origins of her mother’s schizophrenia, Grace M. Cho not only
untangles her own family history but that of a generation of
survivors and their descendants marked by war. Her exploration
leads readers on a poignant journey across time and space,
revealing the scars on the human psyche wrought by the legacy of
violence underpinning US-Korea relations. A moving tribute to all
those ‘never meant to survive,’ Tastes Like War suggests
that healing can’t always be achieved through solitary effort but
requires a collective reckoning with the past.” —Deann Borshay
Liem, director of First Person Plural "More than a love letter from
a daughter to her mother. It's also a testament of female
resilience and survival: it's an homage to motherhood, the women
who died in the Korean War, the "comfort women" of war, and
history's "hysterical women." Cho takes a hard and questioning look
at mental health practices and diagnoses and the way women of color
are ignored, misdiagnosed and mistreated; and she investigates the
way systemic racism, war and social and cultural trauma can cause
severe mental health disorders. . . . Tastes Like War is a book
that doesn't leave you." —Michelle Malonzo, Changing Hands
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