"Catherine Newman sees the heartbreak and comedy of life with wisdom and unflinching compassion. The way she finds the extraordinary in the everyday is nothing short of poetry. She's a writer's writer--and a human's human."--New York Times bestselling author Katherine Center
"A riotously funny and fiercely loyal love letter to female friendship. The story of Edi and Ash proves that a best friend is a gift from the gods. Newman turns her prodigious talents toward finding joy even in the friendship's final days. I laughed while crying, and was left revived. Newman is a comic masterhand and a dazzling philosopher of the day-to-day."--Amity Gaige, author of Sea Wife
"The funniest, most joyful book about dying--and living--that I have ever read."--KJ Dell'Antonia, author of the New York Times bestselling The Chicken Sisters
For lovers of Meg Wolitzer, Maria Semple, and Jenny Offill comes this raucous, poignant celebration of life, love, and friendship at its imperfect and radiant best.
Edith and Ashley have been best friends for over forty-two years. They've shared the mundane and the momentous together: trick or treating and binge drinking; Gilligan's Island reruns and REM concerts; hickeys and heartbreak; surprise Scottish wakes; marriages, infertility, and children. As Ash says, "Edi's memory is like the back-up hard drive for mine."
But now the unthinkable has happened. Edi is dying of ovarian cancer and spending her last days at a hospice near Ash, who stumbles into heartbreak surrounded by her daughters, ex(ish) husband, dear friends, a poorly chosen lover (or two), and a rotating cast of beautifully, fleetingly human hospice characters.
As The Fiddler on the Roof soundtrack blasts all day long from the room next door, Edi and Ash reminisce, hold on, and try to let go. Meanwhile, Ash struggles with being an imperfect friend, wife, and parent--with life, in other words, distilled to its heartbreaking, joyful, and comedic essence.
For anyone who's ever lost a friend or had one. Get ready to laugh through your tears.
Show more"Catherine Newman sees the heartbreak and comedy of life with wisdom and unflinching compassion. The way she finds the extraordinary in the everyday is nothing short of poetry. She's a writer's writer--and a human's human."--New York Times bestselling author Katherine Center
"A riotously funny and fiercely loyal love letter to female friendship. The story of Edi and Ash proves that a best friend is a gift from the gods. Newman turns her prodigious talents toward finding joy even in the friendship's final days. I laughed while crying, and was left revived. Newman is a comic masterhand and a dazzling philosopher of the day-to-day."--Amity Gaige, author of Sea Wife
"The funniest, most joyful book about dying--and living--that I have ever read."--KJ Dell'Antonia, author of the New York Times bestselling The Chicken Sisters
For lovers of Meg Wolitzer, Maria Semple, and Jenny Offill comes this raucous, poignant celebration of life, love, and friendship at its imperfect and radiant best.
Edith and Ashley have been best friends for over forty-two years. They've shared the mundane and the momentous together: trick or treating and binge drinking; Gilligan's Island reruns and REM concerts; hickeys and heartbreak; surprise Scottish wakes; marriages, infertility, and children. As Ash says, "Edi's memory is like the back-up hard drive for mine."
But now the unthinkable has happened. Edi is dying of ovarian cancer and spending her last days at a hospice near Ash, who stumbles into heartbreak surrounded by her daughters, ex(ish) husband, dear friends, a poorly chosen lover (or two), and a rotating cast of beautifully, fleetingly human hospice characters.
As The Fiddler on the Roof soundtrack blasts all day long from the room next door, Edi and Ash reminisce, hold on, and try to let go. Meanwhile, Ash struggles with being an imperfect friend, wife, and parent--with life, in other words, distilled to its heartbreaking, joyful, and comedic essence.
For anyone who's ever lost a friend or had one. Get ready to laugh through your tears.
Show moreCatherine Newman has written numerous columns and articles for magazines and newspapers, and her essays have been widely anthologized. She is the author of the novels Sandwich, which was an instant New York Times bestseller, and We All Want Impossible Things; the memoirs Waiting for Birdy and Catastrophic Happiness; the middle-grade novel One Mixed-Up Night; and the bestselling kids' life-skills books How to Be a Person and What Can I Say? She lives in Amherst, Massachusetts.
"Tragically funny, with moments of clarity and wisdom, Newman
writes loss and laughter in equally brilliant amounts." -- Bonnie
Garmus, New York Times bestselling author of Lessons in
Chemistry"Excruciatingly heartbreaking, but I laughed out loud on
almost every page. And I am not an easy laughter. Newman's voice is
hilarious and warm; her characters feel like old friend . . . a
winning novel." -- Julie Klam, New York Times Book Review"Catherine
Newman's book We All Want Impossible Things is hilarious and
heartbreaking and I die for her." -- Samantha Irby, New York Times
bestselling author of Quietly Hostile"This is an absolute
heartbreaker of a novel. Catherine Newman's book, through
deceptively simple language and everyday moments experienced during
a friend's hospice death -- funny, sad, regretful, hopeful -- is a
celebration of life. For anyone who has prepared a hole in their
heart for loss, We All Want Impossible Things is a reminder that,
in time, that hollowed hallowed space is also there for when the
light and love from grief pour back in." -- Laura Zigman, author of
Separation Anxiety"A novel set in a hospice has no right to be as
hilarious, charming, and hopeful as We All Want Impossible Things.
With Nora Ephron-style lightness, Catherine Newman has constructed
a truly singular tale of love and friendship in the twenty-first
century. I loved it." -- Joanna Rakoff, author of My Salinger
Year"A warm and remarkably funny book about death and caregiving
that will make readers laugh through their tears." -- Kirkus
Reviews (starred review)"Devastatingly humorous and humorously
devastating, We All Want Impossible Things is an unbelievably
brilliant and funny book about friendship, family, food, sex, and
death. Catherine Newman serves up a masterclass in narrative -
you'll stay up late devouring every word." -- Katherine Heiny,
author of Early Morning Riser and Standard Deviation"In author
Catherine Newman's expert hands, We All Want Impossible Things is
an extraordinary ode to friendship-warm, sometimes outrageously
funny, and as real as it gets. It celebrates the gift of long-term
bonds without shying away from the pain of losing someone you can't
imagine life without." -- Real Simple"Pulses with life . . . . full
of moments both mundane and painful, hilarious and heartbreaking."
-- BookPage (starred review)"Gorgeous, tender, and unexpectedly
funny. I read the entirety of Edi and Ash's story with my hand
clasped over my heart." -- Kate Baer, #1 New York Times bestselling
author of What Kind of Woman and I Hope This Finds You
Well"Fearless, open-hearted, funny, and provocative." -- Lit
Hub"Newman packs a gut punch, bringing humor and wit to a duo's
final days together in We All Want Impossible Things." --
PopSugar"Compulsively readable and tenderly hilarious." --
Ploughshares"Catherine Newman sees the heartbreak and comedy of
life with wisdom and unflinching compassion. The way she finds the
extraordinary in the everyday is nothing short of poetry. She's a
writer's writer--and a human's human." -- Katherine Center, New
York Times bestselling author of The Bodyguard"We All Want
Impossible Things is a riotously funny and fiercely loyal love
letter to female friendship. The story of Edi and Ash proves that a
best friend is a gift from the gods. Newman turns her prodigious
talents toward finding joy even in the friendship's final days. I
laughed while crying, and was left revived. Newman is a comic
masterhand and a dazzling philosopher of the day-to-day." -- Amity
Gaige, author of Sea Wife"Genuinely heartbreaking and hilarious is
a tough combination to pull off, but Newman does it in her first
novel for adults . . . . Tears mix with laughter in everyday
moments, showing the power of female friendship." -- Washington
Post"The funniest, most joyful book about dying--and living--that I
have ever read." -- KJ Dell'Antonia, author of The Chicken
Sisters"The poignant and personal story of the decades-long
friendship of Edith and Ashley takes place in a hospice ward, where
Edi is dying of ovarian cancer. Sound sad? Heartbreaking? It is.
But it's also heartwarming and life affirming--and yes, hilarious."
-- Publishers Weekly"How did Catherine Newman write a book about
dying that is so luminously alive? Earthy, funny, and terrifyingly
honest--this is a book with heart and guts and all the other goopy
gravy we need to stay among the living. A radical delight." -- Rufi
Thorpe, PEN/ Faulkner Finalist for The Knockout Queen"I adored this
book. There is so much love, funniness, honesty, courage, mess,
bounce, and surprise in this book, and not a shred of it is
mawkish. Loss might be the central theme-or rather the process of
losing your dearest friend-but it is the most robust and glorious
affirmation of life. Pure genius and an utter joy to read." --
Rachel Joyce, bestselling author of The Unlikely Pilgrimage of
Harold Fry"Devastatingly hilarious and poignantly poetic story
about the intimacy of female bonds." -- E! News"[Newman] brings Ash
to life through a voice that is both hilarious and filled with
crushing sadness, but the ultimate message is that of hope. A
crossover readalike for fans of death memoirs such as those by Paul
Kalanithi and Nora McInerny." -- Booklist"Breezy New York
Nora-Ephron-style wit meets hospice memoir to create something
PROFOUNDLY beautiful. Grief, love, cake--it's ALL there." -- Marian
Keyes, international bestselling author of Rachel's
Holiday"Affirming, entertaining, and unaccountably, wonderfully
funny" -- Romper"Can NOT put this down. Read for two-plus hours
straight last night. Read while standing in line today. Read any
free minutes. So, so, so good . . . Smart women friendship fiction
at its best." -- Zibby Owens"Here is the thing about this book. It
is excruciatingly heartbreaking, but I laughed out loud on almost
every page. And I am not an easy laugher. Newman's voice is
hilarious and warm; her characters feel like old friends . . . . a
winning novel." -- New York Times"Here and throughout, Newman does
a wonderful job channeling Ash's sense of impending loss . . . .
Newman breathes ample life into this exquisite story of death and
dying." -- Publishers Weekly"This is one of my new favorite
books--a smart friendship story that made me laugh and cry. Truly."
-- Zibby Owens, GMA.com"Newman's affecting novel takes place in
hospice, yet it's anything but bleak . . . . Don't miss it." --
People Magazine"Yes, we all know hospice is sad, but it's also
absurd, tedious and often achingly boring . . . . This story of
friendship, family dynamics and even ill-timed lovers is also a
reckoning with how life is about holding one another up through
good times and bad-- which are often one and the same. It's a
meditation on how to love through loss that will help make whatever
you're dealing with feel a little bit lighter." -- Good
Housekeeping"There's no one quite like Catherine Newman, who can
absolutely tear your heart out while reminding you how much there
is to laugh about. This book, a novelization about taking case of
her dying friend, is quintessential Catherine." -- Jenny
Rosenstrach, author of The Weekday Vegetarians"Ash's voice is
unbearably compelling . . . [The characters] are all original,
fully imagined human beings, likable in different ways." -- New
York Journal of Books"Not advised for reading in public, unless you
enjoy crying around strangers." -- New York Post"Wonderful." -- Cup
of Jo"[A] hug of a book . . . . a humorous, touching rumination on
life, death, and friendship." -- Apartment Therapy"A tender,
raucous, heart-wrenching, laugh-out-loud, thoughtful and honest
exploration of friendship, life and death." -- BookReporter"...a
fierce ode to female friendship and an exploration of the messiness
of life, when grief and laughter can often be intertwined . . . .
Newman has a light touch and uses humor to navigate the pain and
raw emotion that's at the center of the novel." -- Daily Hampshire
Gazette"I never thought any book would have me weeping more than A
Little Life, but Catherine Newman's We All Want Impossible Things
broke that record . . . . Pairs well with Kathryn Schulz's Lost &
Found and/or Janine Kwoh's Welcome to the Grief Club."
-- Southern Bookseller Review"Through Ash's honest thoughts, her
time with Edi, her conversations with her daughters, and her
relationships with her lovers, Catherine Newman has written a novel
that perfectly captures what it's like to experience love and
loss." -- The Everygirl
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